So why this deviation from my normal content?
Unfortunately too many of the people I see in clinic have experienced some sort of trauma (either directly, or indirectly) affecting their pelvic region (and increasingly so with long covid).
We aren’t ever taught / told / shown how to be comfortable enough with ourselves to achieve orgasm either solo, or with a partner. Increasingly this loss is thought to be part of life, or ‘just getting old’.
This is an important part of who we are, and I’m sure it affects more than those who find.
I hope this helps.